Often times when I tell a guy I’m celibate he looks at me like I’m an alien, with his twisted face and his bulging eyes he says what? real slow like it impossible to wait until marriage to have sex. when I’m with my girls and tell them the same thing they look at me with disgust saying my precious goodies are going to waste. It’s twenty seventeen I can see how waiting can seem like a foreign thing to most people. but its possible, most of our relationships fall apart because we are giving our bodies too soon and our hearts to slow. we shouldn’t be figuring out a person after we slept with them, we should already know a person’s hopes, dreams, fears, personality. It amazes me how much the world teaches us that waiting for your husband is wrong but yet sleeping with multiple men is right. what kind of backwards logic is that?. I guess this try it before you buy it society is the reason why the divorce rate is so high and people don’t build deep meaningful relationships anymore. I’m celibate because I know my worth, my faith also teaches that what I have between my legs is more precious than rubies and it took me a long time to know that. It also saves me a lot of heartache, every time I tell a man its locked down his true intentions show. We as women seriously need to stop selling our self to the highest bidder or Instagram liker. Someone that wants you for you and not what you can do in the bedroom is a beautiful thing…believe you are worth the wait.
“Like a gold ring in a pig’s snout is a beautiful woman who shows no discretion” – Proverb 11:22